Our episode subject recently is ideal Intercourse extremely we are speaing frankly about… the very best sex we have now had! We are accompanied by Autostraddle creator, poet, and journalist Dani Janae as we go into some steamy stories with an in-depth conversation by what can make good gender quality. Therefore we spend a lot period on my sexual hang ups that I could or might not have really done most work on this summer!

Appear for all the lesbian movie-themed game, stay for all the coming.

SHOW NOTES

+
The 200 the best lesbian+ Videos listing
that Christina pulled the overall game from.

+ For those who haven’t review Dani’s
Structure of a Mango
series you really must.

+
Here is the essay
I typed towards individual We talk about in the occurrence. Its merely already been 24 months but plenty has changed!

+ the summertime has gone by therefore we however stan Olivia Rodrigo. See the
“Brutal” music video
.

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Dani:

The cat and also the dog happened to be within the space there ended up being cat-and-dog hair everywhere. Therefore, I was definitely having an allergic effect although we happened to be having sex. Although orgasm ended up being like chef’s kiss. It absolutely was the perfect, best knowledge actually.

Christina:

We ask yourself if it’s some thing in regards to the hives that actually added some

je ne sais quoi

to that particular orgasmic knowledge.

Theme track performs

Drew:

Welcome to

Hold off, So Is This a night out together?

Christina:


Hold off, Is It a Date?

is actually an Autostraddle podcast all about, you thought it, matchmaking.

Drew:

Yay! I Enjoy dating. I Am Drew Gregory. I’m a writer for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and simply basic trans gay individual all over internet and… I became planning say globe, but it’s truly similar to la and ny.

Christina:

I favor this globe-trotting gay individuality you’re taking on right here in 2021.

Drew:

I want that. Yeah, it’s for future years.

Christina:

Yeah. I will be your own other host, Christina Tucker, additionally an author for Autostraddle, deranged loud homosexual on the web. Just sorts of away here, authorship, becoming gay, doing whatever you can every min to try and function with this existence we’re living.

Drew:

You’re really doing it. You’re really working throughout that existence.

Christina:

Frankly, it is all I’m able to carry out. That is all I have, it’s the only choice.

Drew:

I truly admire the effort.

Christina:

The try to live?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Yeah. Really, really courageous of me to actually try it. You aren’t wrong, you are not wrong. Do you want to consider playing a little video game now, Drew?

Drew:

Oh my Jesus, I’m thus excited. Cannot hold off observe everything you have for me.

Christina:

I am very pleased you mentioned that as you completely have to state yes, for the reason that it’s section of this bargain we’ve developed right here. So you could be aware of the truth that on autostraddle.com, website, there is a summary of 200 lesbian motion pictures.

Drew:

I am aware from it. I may have written it.

Christina:

You might have. The thing I did is actually extract an array of 10 of the flicks. I held them to the utmost effective 50. I’ll supply you with the story key words as chosen by users on IMDb and you’re gonna have to you know what flick it’s.

Drew:

Okay. I simply want the listeners, wherever you will be, to find out that I’m not attending pull up record. I think that is right, am We assuming that’s correct in the way I ought to be respecting this game?

Christina:

I think which is extremely polite and I believe that’s fair. In addition style of trust that is certian be something which one thinks of very easy for you, I didn’t get as well kept.

Drew:

I have an awful mind, but yes, I’m going to make an effort to set people up for reduced expectations.

Christina:

Fair adequate.

Drew:

Anytime i really do really well, it’s want sort of strike all of them away, of course I don’t excel, they’ll certainly be want, “Well, she pointed out…” Anyways, carry on. Let us begin this.

Christina:

Let’s beginning. I shall focus on pretty general people and that I will have a lot more specific even as we go, because a number of them are practically exactly what the film is during two words. Therefore wewill just be sure to start with a wider experience right here.

Drew:

I like it.

Christina:

The very first movie: medicines may be the basic storyline phrase. Manhattan, New York City could be the second. Hate crime may be the 3rd.

Drew:

Okay.

It Really Is All-around Me.

Christina:

Yes, it is! See, we knew you will be capable of this.

Drew:

Great.

Christina:

We completely realized you’d be able to perform this.

Drew:

Additionally, i recently need to let individuals realize which probably the most underrated lesbian films, therefore should see it. And Leisha Hailey where flick has become my personal telephone history for a couple years now. Thus merely a great little fact indeed there regarding people.

Christina:

We like that. Fine, motion picture number 2. “unfamiliar daddy,” body organ donor, cemetery, loss of daughter. Oh, she’s thinking.

Drew:

Personally I think like i will seriously get this according to — hold off, as yet not known grandfather, death of boy, body organ donor. Oh,

Exactly About My Mama.

Christina:

Here truly, see.

Drew:

A different one of my personal favorites.

Christina:

It is rather thrilling observe the things that people choose tend to be a land keyword that they need to draw because of these films. I’m also not checking out some of the types which happen to be merely lesbian for the reason that it seems a lot like a gimme.

Drew:

Which is the way I built a lot of the record as if you appear up lesbian movies, everything you discovered was the outdated Autostraddle number or some listings that are not really detailed, thus I would really scroll through databases on the key words of lesbian, lesbian kissing, these specific things like women kissing, these specific things, in order to find flicks where they may be maybe not looked at as a lesbian film because they’re a little more fascinating, or perhaps slightly much less drive, and that’s the way I discovered many of the films being today throughout the record, so full circle.

Christina:

Tune in, IMDb keywords and phrases arriving useful for all of us continuously. This one, individuals moved crazy about this one. Thus merely going to review some random terms for your requirements. Hey, whistling, woman, black colored activities bra, river, stomping out a cigarette, on-the-job collision.

Drew:

On-the-job collision? Oh, I thought I’d it then, really—

Christina:

Cold, in parentheses, the heat.

Drew:

Because in the beginning I was going to state

Foxfire,

but the working collision turned me personally right up. Face to face accident.

Christina:

Do you want even more?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Pickup crashes through a fence.

Drew:

Will it be

Miseducation of Cameron Post?

Christina:

It is really not.

Drew:

Because face to face collision would be an extremely terrible way of explaining that certain of homosexual since you’re trying to become not gayness, tries to mutilate themselves or really does mutilate on their own. That’d end up being fairly intense, but i did not know aided by the IMDb thinkers. Okay, hold off, that is tricking myself up.

Christina:

Do you want more from myself?

Drew:

Truck through a fence. I’m certain its a thing that I am simply not… Yeah, keep going.

Christina:

Mention of the a college mortgage. These are therefore walnuts.

Drew:

Wait, have you viewed this flick?

Christina:

I have come across this film.

Drew:

Is it crazy that I’m not getting it?

Christina:

It really is just a little untamed. I will supply per year, if you’d like a year.

Drew:

Should you give me personally annually, I’ll absolutely get it.

Christina:

Okay. 2016 will be your season.

Drew:

2016. Okay, let me know the goals.

Christina:

It is the film,

Particular Ladies,

2016.

Drew:

Oh! Yeah.

Christina:

I must say I believed pickup truck crashes through a fence would enable you to get, but I additionally simply love these folks simply pulling-out nouns and just being like, “male.” Usually what you believe?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Okay.

Drew:

That is the motion picture. I have to observe that again.

Christina:

It really is. Its the movie.

Drew:

Yeah, it really is a very great motion picture.

Christina:

All right, our very own after that movie. Kissing while having intercourse.

Drew:

Best variety of both, perhaps, you might say.

Christina:

Seduction, dude farm.

Drew:

Could it possibly be

Desert Hearts?

Christina:

Yeah. Thus I was like, “Okay, you have to obtain that afterwards one.” One other one I found myself planning offer you had been — “nipples” ended up being the really plainly featured. And I also ended up being like, “Sure, that’s section of that movie.”

Drew:

Jesus,

Desert Hearts.

You understand how there’s every one of these frustrating people out there wanting to be Shane. Sorry, after all, if you should be wanting to be Shane, I take you. But me, my annoying thing would be that i am attempting to end up being Cay. Cay in this motion picture is much like this is certainly just who I think of because the particular lesbian that I want to be.

Christina:

Yeah, that is correct, can verify. Okay, are we prepared in regards to our then any?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

12 Months—

Drew:

Wait, no, You will find something else to state about

Desert Hearts.

Christina:

Yes.

Drew:

Following last time we re-watched it across the summer, it kind of delivered me personally into a little spiral, and I also texted this more mature semi-closeted individual that I’d sort of begun tentatively wanting to time or day whatever, and who had disappeared for monthly, and I had given up on because I do not beg individuals date myself. But I just was actually love, “Okay.” I viewed

Desert Hearts

and that I was love, “i assume maybe sometimes people have their internalized whatever.” And that I texted the girl and I stated, “Whenever we never ever satisfy, In my opinion you will be sorry.” Therefore performed satisfy, to make sure that’s what

Desert Hearts

can do to you.

Christina:

Wow, which is a really powerful recommendation.

Drew:

We probably must not have came across. I probably need simply give it time to be. But anyways, moving forward, after that movie.

Christina:

Our then movie, metaphysics, world during opening credit — exactly what it means, it really is your responsibility — twelfth grade football, Chicago, Illinois.

Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.

Christina:

There you choose to go.

Drew:

That is another great motion picture. I prefer that We hold being astonished through this number that I had a very strong turn in ranking. It isn’t my personal position, but I did have a huge say when you look at the position and I also love it.

Christina:

Yeah. I recently desire to be clear to you personally and our very own audience — again, I picked through the leading 50, therefore normally good types. With the great types, normally great ones. I know Drewshould constantly state this can be a good flick after each one, but—

Drew:

They are excellent flicks, you guys should view all of them.

Christina:

Fine. Small dress with heels.

Drew:

Love it.

Christina:

Cock blocked, mini top with shoes.

Drew:

I mean, can it be

Blockers?

Christina:

It’s not. That will be too simple, In my opinion, for

Blockers.

Drew:

I Really Don’t keep in mind any miniskirts, but—

Christina:

Feminine rear nudity.

Drew:

Okay. Wait an additional. Okay, just what the next. Okay, dick blocked, mini dress, female backside nudity.

Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Split dance.

Drew:

Is-it

Certain?

Christina:

It isn’t really.

Drew:

No, I would personally love a break dancing scene.

Christina:

I enjoy some slack moving world in

Certain.

Drew:

Some slack moving scene.

Christina:

I’m going to present: English girl abroad.

Drew:

English lady abroad? This really is another where I feel I undoubtedly should get it.

Christina:

I will must provide you with a pretty obvious one sooner or later, in order for’s going to assist.

Drew:

Okay, give me personally an evident one.

Christina:

Undercover representative.

Drew:

Can it be

D.E.B.S?

Christina:

It is not

D.E.B.S.

Its right beside

D.E.B.S.,

particular film wise. Discover a different one, intrigue.

Drew:

Okay, wait, there’s not a large number of genre movies.

Christina:

You’ll findn’t, that is correct.

Drew:

Undercover agent. Really, perhaps they truly are by using the phase, is it

The Handmaiden?

Christina:

It is far from.

Drew:

Okay, i did not think-so. Undercover agent.

Christina:

Would you like the 12 months?

Drew:

I Imagined that… Positive.

Christina:

The 12 months is 2017.

Drew:

Undercover representative.

Christina:

I’m very sorry. You’re feel therefore stupid when I say the concept of this one.

Drew:

Oh no.

Christina:

I’m really sorry about that, but that is type just the means the cookie crumbles.

Drew:

Oh, it really is

Carol.

Christina:

No, it is not

Carol.

Drew:

No, it says 2015.

Christina:

Yes, I Am Aware that. It is not

Carol.

Drew:

But there’s an undercover — the guy, that’s where I found myself considering. Okay, what-is-it? Why does it make me personally feel stupid?

Christina:

Its

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.

Drew:

Oh, that is in top 50?

Christina:

Its. I know.

Drew:

Oh, okay.

Christina:

Okay. We have four even more, you ready?

Drew:

I do not think that stupid for the reason that it one I… I mean, I think

Atomic Blonde

is fun, but I really don’t imagine it is fantastic. That could never be within my personal top 50. I actually do desire globally to find out that i understand that

Carol

arrived on the scene in 2015. My head damage. I just want the whole world to find out that. Anyways, continue.

Christina:

The entire world now understands that, the record has been shown. All righty: bistro, sense of odor, novelist, reference to a hamburger, reference to Larry King, considering memoir, alcohol, theft, lady wears eyeglasses, residing by yourself, damaging evidence.

Drew:

The mention of the Larry King is really—

Christina:

It is an extremely strange one.

Drew:

Mention of the Larry King, damaging evidence.

Christina:

Cat.

Drew:

Oh, can it be

Could You Actually Forgive Me?

Christina:

It really is.

Drew:

I needed to receive my self. I became actually in a slump indeed there.

Christina:

You nailed it. I believe you’ve got indeed there, I believe you completely had gotten here. All right, three even more, all of our top three. I do believe these types might be possible for you because I know you.

Drew:

Great, okay, really…

Christina:

I’m sure, but I’m claiming, isn’t it time?

Drew:

Okay, yeah.

Christina:

Mental health, medication overdose.

Drew:

Would it be

Foxfire?

Christina:

No. Photographer.

Drew:

Oh,

Larger.

Christina:

There we get. Tattoo, girl gang.

Drew:

Is it

Foxfire?

Christina:

Yeah.

Drew:

Oh, i understand

Foxfire.

Christina:

I happened to be like, “Oh, she’s going to simply hold guessing

Foxfire

until I just give the woman

Foxfire.”

Drew:

The secret is that i really like

Foxfire

and I hold wanting to remember

Foxfire.

Christina:

What i’m saying is, whomst among us?

Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.

Christina:

Fine. This Option, one of them is actually—

Drew:

This is actually the finally one?

Christina:

This is the finally one. This will be all of our last any. Church, denial, family connections.

Drew:

Could it be

Miseducation of Cameron Article?

Christina:

It isn’t.

Drew:

Would it be

But I’m a Cheerleader?

Christina:

Truly, yes.

Drew:

Indeed. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Post.

Christina:

Jokes on laughs. So was actually the video game i am phoning, how good Does Drew understand Lesbian videos???

Drew:

I like just how great the audience is coming up with brands in regards to our games.

Christina:

Yeah, it’s actually mortifying that I actually penned that inside the concept of a Bing Doc, the thing that was I considering? That doesn’t also look good inside my Google Docs.

Drew:

I got a good time and that I’m truly glad that i eventually got to inform all the listeners about most of the flicks that they should watch. And now we’ll place the list from inside the tv show notes.

Christina:

Completely.

Drew:

I’d declare that the list has become at somewhere where In my opinion you’d get one thing out of watching all 200 movies. The initial version of record, there clearly was some things on there that I happened to be not as pleased with. There continues to be stuff that i do believe that I do not privately but i believe that as one, there is a particular quality control next newest revision that I feel happy with and that I believe they can be all really worth watching.

Christina: